Post by Bernd JendrissekWith skank proof you can get fatties, with
fattie proof you can get substance-abusing hottie, and with
substance-abusing hottie you can get classy hottie, and with classy hottie
you can get virginal cocktease Adrianna Lima which is >what you ultimately
want, right?
Definitely!
Post by Bernd JendrissekSomehow you have to, you just HAVE TO be able to muscle your way into
groups of strangers or cold->approach individuals.
Right, maybe you could try what I did one time which was talk
negatively about an alpha guy when he wasn't around so that although I was
being seen talking to 'cool' guys I wasn't viewed as their lapdog either.
Of course doing this I ran the risk of the females telling him what I
said about him but in this instance I lucked out because the females had
already dropped him beneath me in 'coolness' level simply because he had
screwed up by establishing himself as "teacher's pet" to a female
professor who the females in the class didn't particularly like! I ended
up looking like the cool one because I was in on the girls' "Hate the
teacher" clique.
Post by Bernd JendrissekI don't know - I wonder if women separate men into "super hot, we'll
throw ourselves at him", >and "the rest".
I think they do divide them up like that, it also depends a lot on who
your competition is, everything with women is about compare and contrast
similar to how they would select between various types of shoes at the
mall.
Post by Bernd JendrissekYes, I think this could be my next motivational project: to find the
mental energy I need to >pursue "looking good" in my clothes as a goal.
Yes, you also need to focus very hard on your posture/how you walk or
sit, the sitting thing is especially important, take up plenty of space,
and make slow lingering movements rather than quick neurotic ones. This is
why the potheads get girls because they have those slow movements which the
females are too blind to see are merely the result of being high.
Faces are important too: choose either-
1. the brooding/"I'm mysterious" mode
or
2. the smirking "Oh yeah, I always get my way, babe" smile
For shybies the #1 is the easier one to carry out because we usually
are brooding because we were bullied for most of our childhood. LOL
Post by Bernd JendrissekLike I said in another thread, being able to make others (especially men)
is a signal of alphaness, and laughing at other men's jokes signifies
relative betaness, except in friendly situations, in which case it is more
important to "play the game" and laugh along - you most definitely do NOT
want to be the killjoy who >never laughs.
I have a real problem laughing spontaneously so I need a lot of
practice on that, but you are right, the laughing suggests that you aren't
too focused on the work task. When a man is too serious/focused on the work
task women perceive that the reason he is being so focused is because he is
totally struggling at the task, and thus he's weak and not alpha!
SERIOUS= HE'S STRUGGLING= LOSER......
CASUAL/LAID BACK= IT IS EASY FOR HIM= WINNER
Case example: arrogant D student who never shows that he is barely
hanging on academically can still wear the "I'm in control, this stuff is
easy" persona and women buy it!! Seriously!!! I see A students everyday
who wear the anxious/pained facial expression as though THEY were the D
students while the D students are smirking and content, and WOMEN SEE THIS
and draw the conclusion that the D students are the real alphas while the A
students are BETAS because they act like betas!!!!! They are anxious and
struggling so they aren't winners!!!
Their ACTUAL GRADES? In the female's mind, WHAT GRADES? Those are
privately handed from professor to student and the D student has a way of
concealing his dumbness far easier than the A student conceals his
anxious/dweebhood..
Post by Bernd JendrissekIs seems to me that the "intelligence" that women find sexually
attractive is the intelligence you need to make up jokes on the fly, or
the intelligence you need to emit sexual >innuendo and flirt and that kind
of stuff.
Oh yes, absolutely!!! Intelligence to women is social flexibility and
the projection of assertive ape-based/alpha body language and a myriad of
facial expressions perfectly placed in time and space.
Post by Bernd JendrissekAside from quasi-fetish hunters, the intelligence you need to be able to
major in physics or expound on Hitler's military coups and blunders, are
completely irrelevant. I'll let you know if the fact that I have a Physics
major ever >makes a difference.
Yes, I see a pattern in the small number of women who are impressed by
males with mental knowledge and in my experience those women are often:
1. Lesbians (seriously, perhaps it is due to the masculine biology of
lesbians but some of them are incredibly well-read and actually talk about
things that men talk about: politics, religion, philosophy, history,
literature, etc..)
2. Fat and ugly women (I think they must have figured out when they were
about 12 or so that the only male attention they could get would be of a
highly specialized type such as guys who love Sci-Fi/Anime/ Fantasy
novels/ Goth, and so on..these fat and ugly women took up an
intellectual/hobby world as a way to meet men but in doing so they have
become more interesting in personality than the typical blonde model
babe)